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Despite social distancing, you can increase social engagement

These past three weeks of so-called “social distancing” have, ironically, been some of the most “socially connected” we’ve experienced in our life. Indeed, for those of us in our bonus years, there are lots of folks to connect with, so we’ve been “socially connecting” all...
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Safe at home during coronavirus pandemic, remember blessings don’t always roar

A recurring bonus years’ theme is the idea that with age comes perspective and balance, virtues born of knowledge and experience. Sometimes we flaunt it.  Think of the comment, “I’ve seen this movie before” – as a know-it-all flashes his or her familiarity with what’s...
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Dr. Fauci’s knowledge and authority show value of age and experience in pandemic management and messaging

How old is old? After spending another week in isolation but observing the daily reports of the White House coronavirus task force – and especially the remarkable leadership of Dr. Anthony Fauci (age 79), the public face of the federal government’s response to the coronavirus...
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Dr. Deborah Birx is the grandmother coordinating the White House response to the coronavirus

“I’m also a grandmother.” Those were among the first words she spoke as she stepped up to the White House podium last week to answer a question about the coronavirus, the new flu that has changed the daily life of nearly every person on the...
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Bonus Years on Changing the Rules Podcast

Listen as we chat with Ray Loewe about living with purpose in your Bonus Years! EPISODE SUMMARY "It's better to wear out than to rust out." This is the wisdom Phil Burgess found after "failing at retirement twice." After his several false starts at retirement,...
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Stuff matters less in retirement. Give experiences.

With only three shipping days till Christmas, last-minute gift-buying can be a source of tension.  Some gift-buying decisions are easy.  For example, for young ones, there’s the rule of four: something they want; something they need; something they wear; and something they read. However, gift-buying...